Monday, 02 May 2005

2nd May 2005

Suppose you are in Bangalore, and you are sitting idle.....what will you do.......chances are that you will tune to FM Radio 91.....thats the most happening thing here in Bangalore.....I won't be out of place if I say that FM Radio is a part of all the Bangalorean's daily life..............you might be getting an impression that today I am in a mood to promote this channel.....but I guess I am not right person to do so, nor do I have such an appeal.....so here is the reason for all this ..... this morning I got was as usual listening to it and suddenly a survey question popped up........who is more possessive.......your father.....your brother.....or your boyfriend..?

well, I tried to delve into things and came up with my own answer and it reasoning..............in my opinion boy-friends are more possessive for their relation......and the simple reason I can give is from my personal experience with such a relation long time back.

we generally are into a habit of taking our relations with our parents and siblings for granted....and thus we never have any kind of insecurity.......but when the same comes to the relation with a girl who is not from our world, instead we try to achieve her......there comes the feeling of losing her.....and we are always into a process of reinforcing things........but somehow the fear remains.......and this brings the possessiveness.........

I don't know if the same applies to you all or not, but it has happened to me.......and I firmly believe that every romantic affair brings in you a taste of possessiveness......thats for sure!